Well, they have a choice, too. Can't say I blame them. Mine was a no-contest. (Lucky me)
Anyhoo, a few of us for what out exes put us through about dressing, may have done a few nasty's to our exes, (or soon to be's) because they choose to get mean with our dressing. I did, because she changed her mind about what I could, or couldn't do. Many, many times.
Now, I bought several expensive dresses for mine. But, she never wore them. They did look good on her, I thought she liked them, she said she did. But they never went out of the house on her body. It wasn't my fault that she was the same size as me. I was good, hers was hers, I never touched them. But once she said I want out- then they were fair game.
One afternoon she called as I was dressed. She wanted to stop by to pick up a few things. So I got mean and put on one of those dresses. With some of her perfume. That went over real well-but I didn't care by that time. Oh well........
Ever do that? Get back at your ex just because? What did you do?