I have found for me that things are not one or the other. When I first started out I was a strait male. Then I thought I was a gay male. Now I feel like a person who is bi. I now realize I want different things in my realationships. Like I want to date women and be in a long term relationship with them. If I would be with a man I want the relationship to be more of a one night stand kind of thing. Sometimes I like to put on make-up just to play. When I do use make-up I look like I am in drag.
I guess what I am saying is if it feels good and you are having fun then go with it. What ever you do just work it. It is not wrong. Do not feel shame. Thing are never black and white.
