Yesterday morning I stopped at the kitchen sink to get a glass of water immediately before leaving for work. The sink was too high for comfort, but it never had been before. How so? Then I realised that my work in the kitchen is ALWAYS done in a dress/skirt and heels. In male shoes, without the heels, I had shrunk! I would have a similar problem with the bathroom sink, but I am always in Susanwear when shaving in the morning and never visit that sink in male shoes. I have a different sink for washing hands after emerging from working in the garden (no outer women's clothes). Heels are brilliant for retrieving things from the shelves of kitchen wall cabinets, by which I mean wine glasses and I would not think of having a glass of wine on my own at home in male clothing. What - wear flat women's shoes at home? Certainly not - these are only used for driving.