So I met up with another cd from here (both in drab) for lunch today. I will let her reveal herself if she chooses.
Honestly, if she hadn't asked me, I probably wouldn't have, it's just not in my nature. She boosted my confidence and I hope I boosted hers by saying we never would have recognized each other going by pics from here. We talked work briefly, a little makeup, a little clothes and our own experiences as far as coming out to SOs (even though we've both posted those things here) . It was an invigorating and liberating experience and the hour went by too quick. It was good to talk with another about cding and I know many have gone out en femme, but this may be a good in between step. Keep watching here to see if she reveals herself and have fun.