Oooooh boy. I haven't been here in so long. I apologize for just disappearing like that. Summer was quite the wild ride this year, and so much has changed.
I stopped crossdressing for a long while. Not really because I wanted to stop, but rather because my mental health was (and still is) suffering. I've come to notice that when I'm under a significant amount of stress, I just don't have the will to do it. Or anything else, really. I basically shut down.
The reason for this stress was that my partner moved in. For many others, this would be a happy occasion, but it turned my life upside down. I expected some changes for certain. He wasn't crazy about crossdressing, so I was prepared to only do it at certain times when he'd be gone. I was expecting him to need some financial help so he could get a car, and I was expecting that for a week at least, I wouldn't be seeing my best friend very much because I was helping my partner settle in.
He never stopped needing my financial aid, I barely saw my best friend all summer, he doesn't get along with said best friend, or my family... And the list goes on and on... I love him a lot, but he's made us feel so isolated when we're together. He doesn't seem to want to talk to me very much. He doesn't even like it when I reach out to others to talk about our relationship problems and try to get advice. The stress of it made me stop crossdressing at all for a while.
Only this week did I finally pick it up again. I've been doing it regularly for a few days now. I don't feel much better. I've just become numb to the stress I'm feeling. But when I crossdress, I get to be someone else for a while. I don't know how helpful that is. I can't help but feel like I want to just run away. Just become Periwinkle and start all over again in a new town with new people and new dreams.
Holy crap I probably sound really depressing. Good thing I'm looking for a therapist.
Anyways, I'm back, I'm sad, but I'm trying to find ways to fix that! I might not feel good, but I'm hopeful for the future.