It's been a week since I discovered my husband of thirty years, is a crossdresser. He said its
been going on for fifteen years. He also told me he also dresses up and meets men.
They get together in hotels,apartments etc. It was a big shock for me on many levels.
The worse part is the dishonesty, and the fact he has been lying to me for so long.
If he only wanted to crossdress that would not be that big of a deal, but since
he has been with men for the past 15 years that is really
hard to deal with. He does not want our marriage to end. For me the trust has been
broken. He does say he will stop crossdressing and seeing men. Is it that easy to stop?