Keep moving forward and keep your mouth shut. My actions speak much louder than anything she can say about me. She did have a friend of hers email my girlfriend a very slanderous, mean spirited letter. My girlfriend showed it to me which led to a very nice talk about dressing in general, my dressing in particular and the various abuses I suffered in my marriage and the like. If we hadn’t both had very established lives and lived 100 miles apart, I might have become one of the lucky ones with a supportive spouse. I’be done my best to never speak I’ll of my ex and am convinced that her actions did her more harm than they did me.
