Hi everyone
I was talking to my therapist this morning and the conversation went towards surgery and hormones. This left me with many questions and I won't post them all here. But for the big ones I'd really appreciate hearing anyone's thoughts to help order my own.
Some background info, I live in a fairly small community and the general views on LGBT issues are improving, my partner is FtM trans but doesn't really hold out much hope for help transitioning, and while we've both got 'parts' that work together we're not really looking at genital surgery.
This morning I was talking about breast augmentation and implants were mentioned. I'm open to suggestions but also said I wondered about hormones as they might prompt breast growth and may help reduce the amount of body hair I currently have to remove in various ways. She seemed a little concerned at this point as she said that there's no guarantees I'd be able to 'do it' when T blockers and oestrogen take hold and she was worried my relationship would suffer as a result.
While I understand where she's coming from and I know everyone is different, is anyone willing to share any experience in that department? PMs in the strictest confidence would be great if you don't want to talk openly about it, but I'm really anxious to get as much info as possible.
While it was a very positive session today, I'm left wondering about that and about the breast augmentations. It feels I'm in a difficult situation right now and that I might be stuck - my relationship is wonderful and I don't want to do anything to ruin any part of it. I worry that presenting and being accepted as female may be easier in some ways (small town mentality doesn't help with that though) with the hormones, but that from a risk point of view implants may be more practical but wouldn't deal with the body hair issue. I'm definitely looking into laser hair removal too - face torso, back and bum to start with, but I know it's damn expensive. So where to begin?
If you're reading this bit, thanks for sticking with me! I'm a bit of a teary mess at the moment so any insights would be fantastic.
Thanks in advance!
Evie x