I was going to start by apologising because I've been banging on about my pending separation for some weeks now, but I have a question to ask members if they were in the same situation.
As far as my wife and I parting we are doing so amicably , so please don't worry about me needing consoling , I'm sure we are both going to be happier with the situation.
At the moment it remains a DADT situation , I am still dressing but not as much, well at least not trying to take advantage of everytime she walks out the door. What I'm trying to avoid in these few weeks is being caught out and it causing an argument and a negative situation. This is while I'm having to wait while my current house sells and I finally move into my new home , I have to admit each day feels like a week .
When I do dress now I really do pass into a comfort zone from where I truly don't want to step back from.The wonderful thought of being able to do this as I choose in the near future without all this DADT nonsense hanging over me is too good to be spoiled by being impatient .
So my question is would you be patient and not spoil the impending new lifestyle for the sake of a few weeks or say the hell with it what difference is it going to make now ?