I have a thread running in Shopping section about some nice clothes I bought from a charity shop and trying on some heels .
The heels were defective because one of the buckle pins was missing I decided to leave them because they are almost 5" and the colour is fuchsia pink .
So when I arrived home after the shopping trip I tried on one of the skirts with a blouse I'd bought to match , I had my forms in and slipped on some black court shoes . I have to say even without makeup or wig the outfit did look very nice.
I popped into the shop the next day to see what the lovely SA was going to do with the heels, she replied that all she could do was bin them , so I put some money in the RSPCA charity box and she gave me them.
I then told how good the outfits looked at home , asked her not to take this comment the wrong way but a guy really shouldn't look that good in women's clothes . Her expression changed and she looked me straight in the eye and said, " Listen to me , I had so many emotions when I saw you trying those clothes on . First I couldn't believe how good you looked and how well they fitted your figure and then I became seriously jealous because you took size 10 and 12 skirts off the rack and just slipped them on , I would so like to wear clothes like that but can't because of my large rear end and thighs !"( she actually has a very good figure ) . I reassured her that she would look far better than me , she smiled at that but wasn't convinced .
This is similar to a comment a GG made before when I commented on lower padding , she gave a similar reply by saying what makes you think we want to carry that extra baggage around with us !
OK so I'm making several points here, first none of this can happen unless you are out in public, if you are in a DADT situation you may never get a true and honest answer from your wife/partner on how you look. My wife varies between thinking I'll look a stupid idiot or a wrinkled up old grandma ! Even though she's never seen me.
The other point is we do look better than we think, providing we chose the right clothes for our figure, we don't need to give ourselves huge boobs and then balance it up with a load of lower padding , try and keep it as natural as possible , women mostly love trim figures and shapely legs and often struggle very hard to achieve it , as we know from the money made from dieting regimes .
I've attached a picture of the heels , goodness knows when I'm going to wear them and with what outfit, first I have to fix the buckle pin .