Hi Ladies,
I have (out of curiosity) read through the entire thread about tips to an SO's acceptance, and read through threads how to accept yourselves, but am wondering if you can help me with ways to become an even more accepting SO of a CDer? What would that look like to you?
It's not that I don't think I show ways of acceptance (and I am not trying so hard that I am shoving it down his/her throat), I am just looking for other tips and hints that I, and perhaps other SO's, who are supportive of their partners dressing can do to make them feel loved, comfortable, open and more accepted.
Here are a few of the things I have done, but I am sure there are many, many others that can be suggested, which is why I thought I would go right to the best resource... All of you.
My list;
> Expressed interest in seeing my partner dressed (Still have not seen her entirely transformed, but we're working up to that.)
> Communication - talking about CD'ing with her occasionally, raising any questions I have and letting her know that I love all of who s/he is, because it's what makes the whole person that I love.
> I offered to let her bring all her femme clothes to my house when moving, so they could be washed and stored because there was no room for them in the new place.
> Went through my intimate items (after seeing all her things and noticing a lack of bra's, actually) and gave her some things that I had held on to that were in really good shape that I couldn't wear anymore after having kids. (6 bras with matching panties. It's funny that we're the same size on top pre-kids {with forms}, and wear the same size bottoms, because I need a little more room the back and she needs a little more room in the front. )
> Buying female items that I know she would like, some presented as gifts, some just little surprises
> I took her shopping for nail polish so that I could give us matching pedicures (Pretty painted toes are very important to me, and as it turns out her as well!)
> I have written her the occasional poem to express my acceptance
> Trying to give tips and information on how gg's do or wear things to "teach" her (as she puts it).
> Overall just doing my best to have an open mind and heart about it all and take it as it comes
I am sure there are more, but can't think of any right now. And please, I am trying to genuinely look for other ideas, so as always, any responses, advice and comments would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you,
-g