So after the last few days I've been asking myself who am I? What am I? My dressing really centres me and makes me want more within the constraints of life. I was speaking with my wife about going to gender therapist and turns out she would like to talk t one about it all too which I think is great. I guess my questions are if left in restrained how far will this go? Honestly I'd dearly love to live as Scarlett 24/7 but it just isn't practical for me at the moment. I'm having to cut back on talking about it with my wife as I see she's a little uneasy at times, I guess she's dealing with her own issues in relation to my dressing.i wish for her sake it's just a sexual thing that umi could turn off but both my wife and I don't feel that's the case. I'm sure it's only a matter of time until someone in extended family notices some of my subtle changes and that's fine once I'm sure what I am and how far this is going? Is this normal for us girls to feel this way from time to time?