Ilene, I think you did the right thing! There are those who will never change their minds and are just closed minded! He basically does not have a need to know! Later you may have to face this but for now you did the right thing! I am going to have to face a similar situation with a life long friend and am not sure where he stands on all this! I am not sure how I am going to handle it! Best wishes Hugs Lana Mae
