The other night I was searching the web for places to go while enfemme when I'm off on my holiday. I found a support group not far away which meets once a month but unfortunately their meeting is a week before I arrive. So I thought I'd email the organiser and see if she could recommend and Trans friendly venues in the area.
Email typed and sent from my femme account. I then had an automated reply saying the email address wasn't valid any longer, please use this account which was a hyperlink. Clicked on it, re-typed and clicked send.
A second later I realised that I'd used my default email account that gives my full drab name. Now okay I know as I'm contacting someone in our community that shouldn't be an issue but all the same I couldn't help feeling a little uneasy. Anyway I got another auto reply saying the second account wasn't valid so not sent.
It was a reminder to me that you always need to be careful, if like me you're in the closet. What we put out onto the internet, the WWW is in most cases once sent, out there and it can't be stopped. So note to self; Must pay more attention.