My wife had me print out divorce papers and she signed them. I collected the financial data needed. So definitely on the brink of divorce. yet I slept in basement one night alone and the next she came down and asked me to return to our bedroom to sleep. The night before she went to dance class alone, then the next she asked me to join her. She had me print out pictures of Ellen and taped them over bedroom to remind her of why she wanted to go ahead with divorce. Now she is proposing she MAY be OK with me dressing, but only if I keep facial hair, so instead of being so pretty, I will be a MIAD. I know several here are fine with that. But after doing so well with makeup and being overjoyed at the results, can I be satisfied with clothes and shoes and wig? So I ask this vast collection of experiences - has anyone tried this step back and did it last?
I want to be honest with her - I did tell her that experience says I can never give up the desire to dress, and the action of dressing is very hard to stop.
Thanks for any input,
Ellen