Over the weekend my wife commented negatively about something one of our male friends did with regards to his wife. It was not something at all bad but something I would never have done. I think of myself as being more female than male in my head and whilst I am not at all effeminate I am not at all an Alpha male either and don't have many traditional 'male hobbies'.
This got me wondering if my wife was initially subconsciously drawn to me because of my 'female' side. Those of you with accepting SO's or even in DADT do you think your 'T component' may have been part of your attributes... albeit subconsciously? I am specifically NOT talking about sexual attraction!
