The other day the wife comes up to me and caresses my chest, then says," you have breasts". Yea I said, "I'm a little over weight and getting old, what did you expect". She feels again, this time she feels the bra I have on, "Ah, lift and separate, that explains it". Nothing more was said, it's nice having an accepting wife. In the early days of acceptance, a bra was her biggest stumbling block, not any more!