I had to give a 3-minute public speech a couple of weeks ago. My wife was there, and she complimented me on my speech. However, she said that I looked like a girl giving the speech. I asked her what she meant, what looked feminine, and she wouldn't answer me.
I have been trying to bring some of the good parts of Steffi into my boy mode. I've learned that if I look GGs in the eye and smile at them, the will almost invariably smile back, even when I'm in boy mode. But lately, there have been a lot of GGs who smile at me first. Maybe I'm bringing more of Steffi into my boy mode than I thought.