SO and sex (as a woman) *straight male CD only please*

[Kas]

***Looking for Straight Male CDer responses only***

Edit: Title should say Straight. Not Cis.

Hi girls,

I am wondering if anybody has been lucky enough to experience/experiment with their SO in a sexual way while dressed, being in the women's (passive) role.

If so, I would like to know how you got the ball rolling. Was it something you partner was already interested in trying/experimenting with? Did you have to beg/plead? Did it just 'happen'? And If not, Is this something that you've fantasised about? Would you ever be open to trying it?

For those that have, did this make you question your sexuality at all being in a passive position? Do you have sex as the "man" AND the "woman" (maybe taking turns for example) or do you only have sex as the "woman"?

[rachel_rachel]

I only wear women's clothing to bed (7 years) so as far as I'm concerned, in bed I'm the female.

[Kas]

Yes, but do you take the passive position during sex? Do you ever act as the "man"? I'm sorry. Your answer was quite vague.

[Trione]

My late wife liked to switch roles at times. I have had sex dressed as a woman and being the woman. Have enjoyed everything that we tried.

[Susan Smokes]

Yes, I have played the female passive role while dressed, and I enjoyed it very much. it was something we were both interested in trying, so we turned the fantasy into a real life role play experience. I have questioned my sexuality since I became a crossdresser, but for now I still consider myself a straight male crossdresser.

[XemmaX]

yeah i have "been the female" ha ha..i dont really know how i got the ball rolling, i sort of just happened i am in a long termish relationship and we experiment abit..liking a cheeky role reversal from your girlfriend is not the same as being having the desire to be taken by a man, personally it did not open the flood gates of bisexuality.

[Kas]

It's good to hear everyone's stories. Me and my partner tried it for the first time the other week. I don't like to admit it, but if I could I would probably choose to do it every time and it has definitely made me a little bi-curious. The funny thing is i haven't even done it dressed yet. My partner told me that she wants to do it while I'm dressed and I am worried I am going to like it a bit too much. I am also worried I will start to find it hard to get the same thing from regular sex.

[LaurenS]

I don't like to admit it, but if I could I would probably choose to do it every time and it has definitely made me a little bi-curious...
I am also worried I will start to find it hard to get the same thing from regular sex.

That was how it turned out for me. I’m sure others mileage varies.

[Beauty Parlor Bev]

It's good to hear everyone's stories. Me and my partner tried it for the first time the other week. I don't like to admit it, but if I could I would probably choose to do it every time and it has definitely made me a little bi-curious. The funny thing is i haven't even done it dressed yet. My partner told me that she wants to do it while I'm dressed and I am worried I am going to like it a bit too much. I am also worried I will start to find it hard to get the same thing from regular sex.

At least some of the people (OP is) on this thread are honest with themselves, others not so much. Another of the 80% is having doubts........

[Fiona123]

Straight male transgender woman here. I have not had the experience you describe. Would I want to try? Absolutely.

[Micki_Finn]

I’ll say yes, I’ve had sex while dressed. Because I’m a lady, no further details will be revealed.

[Kas]

Because I’m a lady, no further details will be revealed.

I like your style, Micki!

[Sandra]

Ok just a couple of thing here.

Firstly. I have had to edit quite a few post because they are against the rules. If your not familiar with the rules then I suggest that you read them here

https://www.crossdressers.com/forums...es#faq_content

Secondly. The mods do decide what is TMI not the members, don't start having a go at the mods because it won't work.

Keep it clean and within the rules, any more editing and the thread will be closed.

[Joyce Swindell]

My wife enjoys what she calls "lesbian love" or she might say something like how about a little lesbian love?? That's pretty much how it goes for us. So when I'm in the mood and dressed then I may give the same responses....basically.

[Rayleen]

Had oral sex by my so while dressed, it was an exciting event but it was out of the blue and never tried it again.

[Robin-in-TX]

Well, yes and no. I wear panties 24/7 but that is it in front of her. So, when we are intimate, I am often in them and have just pulled them to the side on occasion rather than take them off; the same is true of her. I would not call her dominant in any way and she never takes charge. It is not her style.

[Dana44]

I have had sex dressed as a woman. It was nice is all I can say.

[Lacey New]

It is a fantasy of mine to make love to a woman (my SO) while dressed as a woman and to behave as a pair of lesbians but that is as close as it has ever come - fantasy only

[jennifer0918]

No not yet and yes I do fantasize about it though

[leannejacobs]

Yes I've had sex and experienced oral with my wife many times while dressed as a woman, I cant say I took the role of the woman, it was pretty much turn about, I am comfortable with my sexuality, I am 100% heterosexual, I let my wife erm,,,, do me lol sorry keeping it clean, please excuse me, it was very enjoyable but certainly not something I'd like to experience or experiment with' with a man, I have no desire to get involved with a man what so ever.
How did it happen, well I dress regularly with my wife and where there is alcohol involved it's easy, it just happens, any insecurities you or she has just vanish.

I hope I wasn't too graphic, it was necessary to paint a picture of my experience to answer the question.

[Hannahhot]

I have definitely been dominated in bed before by my wife. One day...when I work up the courage, I want to try to wear something feminine while we enjoy each other... Just haven't gotten there yet. I have fantasies. But, in the end, they are all with my wife. Love her too much.

[Shely]

I dress completely for sex, everything including high heels. It started out with just panties and progressed till i wear it all except jewelry and wig. I am hoping to complete that part that someday. There are some really sexy dresses out there. It's a real thrill for me I get excited while i dress. My SO seems to be okay with it, we never had better sex than we do now, (I think).

[Maria 60]

Well for my wife she will take it anyway she could get it, prefers me in male mode but if there's opportunity and I'm dressed it's usually ok. She will usually ask me to remove the wig, but I believe she loves the smoothness of the pantyhose rubbing.
I don't know how much I could explain without getting this removed but for me better then the sex is when we are sitting on the couch and we start to touch each other. She will subconscious feel my legs and then she may start putting her hand under my skirt and run her hands across or cup a boob. That's when I feel so feminine and it drives me crazy, almost like she's also portraying me as a women. What a feeling.
So pretty much for my wife it really doesn't bother her that I'm dressed and will add the sex is alittle more intense when I'm dressed, but pretty much it's the same in male or female mode. I hope I helped you with your question alittle.

[Pat]

I don't know how much I could explain without getting this removed...

I know that some posts here have already been edited for content. My understanding is that this forum is a public forum, which means anyone can read it even if they're not registered with the site. That would include kids. Please (everyone) keep in mind how open this particular forum is.

[BrendaPDX]

Not yet, still in the DADT phase