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  1. #76
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    At my age, "attractive" has left the building. Funny, as men age, they become "distinguished". As women age, they become "old".

    That said, would I date the feminine me? Probably, because I know she would show me a really good time!
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    I try to look my best as Abbey and as Teresa says I find my female look far better than my male look
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    No. As I get older, I find it more and more difficult to make myself look female, so I'm really not attracted by what I see in the mirror.
    Maybe that explains why I get really nervous when I go out - I don't feel attractive and have that niggling feeling that the reason is that I look like a man in makeup.

    There is the odd occasion when my makeup goes really well and the person in the mirror doesn't just look like me with a painted face, but I'm still not attracted.
    When the makeup doesn't go quite as well as I hoped, I just think to myself that at least it's not as bad as Grayson Perry's makeup.

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    Actually, yes I do! Shirley is very attractive and Im so happy that she is a part of myself. I feel very sexy when dressed as Shirley.
    Last edited by ShirleyN; 03-08-2018 at 10:06 AM.

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    I think I looksomewhat attractive. Given the right outfit makeup and accessories though I definitely feel attractive if that makes any sense.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OCCarly View Post
    Well, yes...Attachment 284179. I do. I think I’m five feet, seven inches of cute.
    I think that is a very accurate assessment
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    I think yes. Yes, in some strange way. It would be nice to have a button to push and poof you are your other self.

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    yes, i find in the right pictures, i look and feel really attractive as renee, some other pictures not so much, definitely think renee is more attractive than her male alter ego
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    Yes I do find my fem self attractive. That was the original idea of cding in the first place. Becoming the woman of my own desire.
    And how can I resist when I'm just a bundle of cute?

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    I've waited so long for this time. Makeup is so frustrating. Shaking hands and I look so old. This was a mistake.
    My new maid's outfit is cute. Sure fits tight.
    And then I step into the bedroom and in the mirror, I see a beautiful woman looking back at me.
    Smile, Honey! You look fabulous!

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    I don't consider either self attractive.
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    I am in no way attractive, either dressed or as a man. Too old, too heavy, too bald.

    But I will say this. My best looks are when I am in a dress or skirt. And thanks to a few fabulous SAs, who have coached me on my clothing choices, I look better than I ever thought possible. On top of that, when I am dressed, I FEEL amazing and it shows in how I carry myself. So i feel very good about how I present to the world, howver unorthodox.

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    7A82D01C-A08B-4905-84F7-87B9BDA907CD.jpgFor me it depends on how the makeup turned out and how my hair (wig) looks. I think my legs are super hot and are by far my best feature.
    Last edited by Stephanie43; 11-16-2017 at 01:53 AM. Reason: Adding photo of legs.

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    I do find myself more attractive as a woman than a man. The people I meet when out and about tell me how beautiful I am, and after showing pictures of my male identity they say I look better as a woman. That helps so much to gain enough confidence to not worry anymore when out dressed tastefully.

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    My bottom half, yes. My top half, no. Which probably explains why when I'm mixing things up the feminine expression is always on my legs and feet.

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    I am not sure that this will make sense, but I am not sure that I find myself attractive so much, but I do think that "Terri" can look very attractive. In other words, I do not always think of Terri as being me.

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    Hi Leanne, you look amazing. and your body is very sexy. I love those boots a lot.
    and to asnwer the original question, I find my dressed up self very sexy. I turn myself on when i dress up. as im in my 40's now, im working out because my stomach is messing my look up! lol. but i used to be slim 150 pounds at 6 ft tall and had a great looking body for dressing up. but now im 190.
    anyway, you look gorgeous

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    Well ladies, I seldom post pics for fear of recognition but I thought I'd share a recent pic, just to show what I have to work with, as you can see my height is my biggest flaw and the reason I find it difficult to blend, feel free to post some of your pics, if I dare to do it I'm sure you can lol
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    yes, I do find myself attractive as a woman. Sorry, I already answered here. Anyway, I like seeing myself in the mirrow.
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    Last edited by faltenrock; 11-22-2017 at 04:31 AM.

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    Absolutely! And I love it because for a brief second I feel at ease and comfortable in my skin! Especially because I look the way I perceive myself and the fact that I'm attracted to myself gives me confidence... that is until I step away from the mirror and realize that what I'm doing is ridiculous and spiral into depression

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wasp View Post
    Absolutely! And I love it because for a brief second I feel at ease and comfortable in my skin! Especially because I look the way I perceive myself and the fact that I'm attracted to myself gives me confidence... that is until I step away from the mirror and realize that what I'm doing is ridiculous and spiral into depression
    Hey Wasp, I used to feel the exact same way.. for years... but eventually I let go of feeling like that and admitted to myself what i like, and what i am, and then mentally you kind of just embrace it... now I love it and am turned on completely and I feel free when dressed up.

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    Good to know it won't be like this forever :/

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    Yes, I do find my fem side attractive. On the rare occasssion that I go into public, I am more worried about passing than about being attractive. I at least hope to blend in, if I don't pass. I judge that by second glances and giggles, but I think those are funny, lol.

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    -quietly drools over the lovely pictures-

    Terri, you are gorgeous, hon. That is a beautiful picture.

    Falten, adorable look! Very pretty dress on an equally pretty girl.

    Jessica - my God, you have long legs! Love the red dress - you look wonderful.

    Bella, you are definitely passable. Keep on doing what you're doing and enjoy life your way.


    Gawds, you girls make this look so easy!

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    I am afraid I do think of my self dressed up as attractive. I know it's only im my mind, but it is my mind, i guess. I sometimes look at the photos and think what a FOX i would make.
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    unfortunately, I do not think I am, but I absolutely have some bad arse legs..
    Look at me, a LARGE power lifting man and under all of this Makeup & Lace and if I can look pretty than so can you!

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    No, I don't find my femme self to be attractive, but that's not what I'm going for. My objective is to look female. Attractive? Not so important.

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