Always wonder if I should tell her we chat and exchange pics and what she would say.
Would she mind or what are your thoughts ?
Always wonder if I should tell her we chat and exchange pics and what she would say.
Would she mind or what are your thoughts ?
Hi Rayleen, I am still very new here but I have told my SO that I am chatting on this site. Not really sure how she feels about anything really.
My fiancé opened my phone to look at something and I had forgotten to close the browser. She saw the forum and my avatar pic (1st time she ever saw me in a wig). She didn't seem to care though. It actually got her to jump on some forums (not sure if this one) and do some research for herself. Nothing bad has come from it.
Mine doesn't care. She had an account on PantiesEtc before it mysteriously disappeared a few years ago.
Life is too short to be boring.
My wife knows, has seen me posting and does not care. She knows I have made friends here and have met them, gone oit with them, had them here and have had them as room mates at DLV. No problems with this
Was looking at the forum while she was in the same room, she knows I've been on here a lot. "So those are the ladymen you talk to?" she asks.
my ex-wife was the person who found this site --guess she is more internet savvy than i am.
My wife knows and doesn't think anything about it and doesn't have any problems with it.
Yes, I told Jeannie of this site before we met. She is a regular lurker. No offense but she finds some of the posts amusing.
Hello Everyone.
I just joined. I’m Shauna. My wife knows that i like to dress and has seen me fully dressed. This has been for many years now. She is tolerating but not 100% supportive and encouraging. She does NOT know that I go online looking for support and or friends. She would be very worried I think.
My fiancee knows, sometimes reads over my shoulder. I often tell her what's going on here.
Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".
"We exchange photos?"
Really? Can someone explain how "we" do that?
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
When I came out to her she was looking for answers and stumbled across the forum and told me about it. She thought it would be a good idea if I joined. She doesn't know how much or what I post. I don't think she really wants to know.
Sara
My wife knows I am on a site for crossdressers, but not sure if she knows which one. I don't hide anything from her, and if she wanted to know the site I am on I would let her see everything I have posted.
Yes my SO is on this site also. Sometimes she logs in and looks at the threads But not as much as me.
Part Time Girl
My so knows doesn’t approve of it but I go with the dadt policy she knows I have it but hasn’t asked about it so I just do my own thing and she does hers
Yes, my wife knows about this site, I occasionally tell her some of the stories that I have read. She has no interest in joining in at this time.
I like myself, regardless of the packaging that I may come in! It's what is on the inside of the package that counts!
My wife will always look over and always ask "anything good today?" I love it. Let's us discuss new topics and is a constant reminder that this is who I am ..and that I so gratefully have her full acceptance.
I've told her I look at an online forum and occasionally post, but she really doesn't want to know about it.
Yes, my SO knows. I told her when I joined. It's all part of the openess that we have whe it comes to all of this. I showed her my introduction post when I signed up. Her commet? "Is that you?" Apart from that she's not really shown any more interest. But her knowing does mean that I free to look and post when it's convenient for me.
Not this one, but she knows, that i'm on a german CD site.
My wife not only knows, she's also a customer, lol (forum member 'greeneyes')
In between the bright lights and the far, unlit unknown...
Yes, she does.
She lurks, I believe. I"ve never seen her "active' on here or logged in.
But I know she's been on here and read parts of the forum (like this section) that are open for public reading. I don't know if she has discovered Ilene on the board yet. I do know, from bits of conversation we've had (often in heated discussion about CD ), she's read parts of this forum. She used specific language that is frequently used on this board. She's also pointed out that I spend time - too much time - on this specific website.
It's frustrating to know she can read a lot of material here. So far I haven't written anything I wouldn't and probably haven't said to her in person. It's not like I have anything to hide from the S. O., The Wife. Yet it's nice to have a "safe space" and not feel like I am being spied upon in my gender identity growth.
I worry that I may say something inadvertent, or during a period where I perhaps go too far/too soon, or whatever. I may explore feelings that I later learn need to be put away. I don't want a misunderstanding to happen if she reads something Ilene says on this forum.
I want to be open and honest on this board. Yes,.... everything I share here I share on a forum that I accept to be (in general) friendly, supportive, and often encouraging. I have a general sense (but no guarantee) that the members of my forum mean me no harm; have no need to know my real identity or harm my reputation, or shame me in any way. There's a sense that we are all together on this strange personal journey.
Yes..... this is one of my safe spaces; perhaps my only safe space. Thank you, my Sisters for making it that way.
There resides within me a Woman, and she is powerful.
She has been my Grace and Bearing on the stormiest seas.
I could no more deny Her than I would my own soul.
My wife knows I frequent this site. We are in a DADT relationship. Recently, I continue to read posts when she gets home from shopping. Every time she shouts , "Get out of that site when I am home!"
I do not think she has seen much of the site or read more than one or two posts.