I wrote a thread called "ITS SIMPLE, RIGHT? " and it was about how easy things would be if I could just keep my dressing indoors. I'm thinking that I don't want to become a women, I don't want to go out clubbing or socializing, I just feel so relaxed being dressed and enjoy feeling like a women when ever I can. Im thinking to myself my wife is OK with it and maybe without taking any unnecessary high risk and keep it indoors I could probably have a life time of happy dressing.
I have fought back a few temptations to go for a drive but it wasn't easy. Tonight I was sitting watching TV and my wife asked me " your dying to go for a drive, aren't you?" I didn't answer and she said that I'm so stressed with work and I look so tired and maybe a drive will do me good. She told me to be careful and if I'm feeling spontaneous I could put gas in her car and a carwash.
I decided to go, once all dressed and driving I was feeling disappointed with myself that I broke my promise to myself to keep it inn, but it felt so good and relaxing to be driving dressed. I stopped at the regular gas station and I got out of the car and WOW! what an amazing feeling of the outdoor air under the dress, I push carwash on the pump and start gasing up the car. Once done I put the pump back and I'm waiting for my receipt for the carwash and the pump screen read to go to attentent to get your receipt. OMG what do I do now, do I just drive away and lose $13.00 dollars or do I have to strip down and put on my male clothes to go get the receipt. I'm in no mood to strip down and now getting very angered at my bad luck that this never happened before, I look at myself in the rear view mirror and being upset not knowing what to do, I aggressively grab my purse and walk into the gas station. I find myself in line behind two men, my heart beating 100 mile a minute, I look down and see my toes peeking out of my reinforced pantyhose of the opened toe heels. I can't believe what I'm doing, the two men ahead of me pay for gas and turn and walk away, but thank GOD nobody even noticed me. I was so upset about this situation that I didn't even try to put on a female voice, the gas attendant was a middle aged Indian man, with a full male voice I told him "pump #4 I paid for a carwash and the pump is out of paper". This guy had an attitude like he would have rather been anywhere else then there, without even lifting his head or without a movement he pushes some buttons on his register and hands me the receipt without moving a muscle.
Now that I got my receipt and everything is OK I find myself walking to my wife's car hearing the clicking of the heels and not looking around and still in disbelief what I'm doing.
I get in the car and once in the carwash I call my wife and told her how proud she would be of me for what I have done and all my talk about keeping it indoors and I took my biggest risk ever.
She told me not to worry about it and if I thought anyone seen me, I told her I didn't look around I kept my head straight. I got home and she wasn't upset and believed I was so tierd I wasn't thinking straight and just got nervous and I didn't want to lose the money or get dresses so I took the easy route.
I tried to stay inn and not take the risk and I did the total opposite.
I'm have mixed feelings now, I feel disappointed with myself and on the other hand I have an excitement feeling of what I still don't believe I did and still have the vision of when I looked down at my feet.
I think it was easier to quit smoking then to keep myself from going for a drive again. I'm glad I wrote ITS SIMPLE RIGHT? but it didn't help.