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    Aspiring Member Rayleen's Avatar
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    Does your wife or partner know you're on the forum ?

    Always wonder if I should tell her we chat and exchange pics and what she would say.

    Would she mind or what are your thoughts ?

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    New Member mattfrykowski's Avatar
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    Hi Rayleen, I am still very new here but I have told my SO that I am chatting on this site. Not really sure how she feels about anything really.

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    My fiancé opened my phone to look at something and I had forgotten to close the browser. She saw the forum and my avatar pic (1st time she ever saw me in a wig). She didn't seem to care though. It actually got her to jump on some forums (not sure if this one) and do some research for herself. Nothing bad has come from it.

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    Senior Member Read only Allison Chaynes's Avatar
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    Mine doesn't care. She had an account on PantiesEtc before it mysteriously disappeared a few years ago.
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    Gold Member Alice B's Avatar
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    My wife knows, has seen me posting and does not care. She knows I have made friends here and have met them, gone oit with them, had them here and have had them as room mates at DLV. No problems with this

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    Aspiring Member sarah_hillcrest's Avatar
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    Was looking at the forum while she was in the same room, she knows I've been on here a lot. "So those are the ladymen you talk to?" she asks.

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    Banned Read only terza's Avatar
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    my ex-wife was the person who found this site --guess she is more internet savvy than i am.

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    Senior Member Robin777's Avatar
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    My wife knows and doesn't think anything about it and doesn't have any problems with it.

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    Hello Everyone.
    I just joined. I’m Shauna. My wife knows that i like to dress and has seen me fully dressed. This has been for many years now. She is tolerating but not 100% supportive and encouraging. She does NOT know that I go online looking for support and or friends. She would be very worried I think.

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    Yes, I told Jeannie of this site before we met. She is a regular lurker. No offense but she finds some of the posts amusing.
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    Platinum Member alwayshave's Avatar
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    My fiancee knows, sometimes reads over my shoulder. I often tell her what's going on here.
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    Female Illusionist! docrobbysherry's Avatar
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    "We exchange photos?"
    Really? Can someone explain how "we" do that?
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

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    When I came out to her she was looking for answers and stumbled across the forum and told me about it. She thought it would be a good idea if I joined. She doesn't know how much or what I post. I don't think she really wants to know.
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    Aspiring Member Steph_CD_62's Avatar
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    My wife knows I am on a site for crossdressers, but not sure if she knows which one. I don't hide anything from her, and if she wanted to know the site I am on I would let her see everything I have posted.

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    Gold Member Dana44's Avatar
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    Yes my SO is on this site also. Sometimes she logs in and looks at the threads But not as much as me.
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    Junior Member CdD Janessa's Avatar
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    My so knows doesn’t approve of it but I go with the dadt policy she knows I have it but hasn’t asked about it so I just do my own thing and she does hers

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    I accept myself as is Gillian Gigs's Avatar
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    Yes, my wife knows about this site, I occasionally tell her some of the stories that I have read. She has no interest in joining in at this time.
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    Member Lux's Avatar
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    My wife will always look over and always ask "anything good today?" I love it. Let's us discuss new topics and is a constant reminder that this is who I am ..and that I so gratefully have her full acceptance.

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    Member Shayna's Avatar
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    I've told her I look at an online forum and occasionally post, but she really doesn't want to know about it.

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    Yes, my SO knows. I told her when I joined. It's all part of the openess that we have whe it comes to all of this. I showed her my introduction post when I signed up. Her commet? "Is that you?" Apart from that she's not really shown any more interest. But her knowing does mean that I free to look and post when it's convenient for me.

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    New Member Viggy's Avatar
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    Not this one, but she knows, that i'm on a german CD site.

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    Gold Member bridget thronton's Avatar
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    Yes she knows

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    Aspiring Member Lacey New's Avatar
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    No, she does not know.

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    Yes, she knows and is ok with it. She tolerates and occasionally teases.

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    Yes my wife knows about the forum.

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