3rd date

[Tracii G]

Had my 3rd date with a fellow I met 4 months ago.
Not sure where or if its going anywhere but thats OK just having the dates is nice.
1st 2 dates I was in girl mode this one was I was 50/50 mode.
He asked me to be in 50/50 mode so not a problem.
Did a few historical sites around town and visited a winery close by.
Quite a few people on the tour and we all had a fun time.
He treated me the same as he did when I was in girl mode which is what I was hoping for.
Super nice guy overall and a fun time yay !!

[Minnietheminx]

Lovely to hear hun and even if its not going anywhere its lovely to have a friend to share things with that has the same interests ...have fun!! xx

[Rosemary+]

Sounds lovelly, good luck with it

[Dana44]

Sounds nice Tracii. Hope he stays in touch with you.

[Krea]

That sounds really great. It's good that he is ok with whichever mode you choose.
Hope it works out well for you!

[Tracii G]

Thanks all.
He is a really nice guy and we do have lots in common which is always a plus.
He is down for either mode I'm in but I let him choose. I don't want him to be uncomfortable in any way with my presentation.
He is 6'2" and I'm 5'4" so in girl mode it looks right anyway.

[Rogina B]

I don't want him to be uncomfortable in any way with my presentation.
He is 6'2" and I'm 5'4" so in girl mode it looks right anyway.

So,if he isn't comfortable,why cave? Seems that he is more comfortable as "straight gay"...Hold him and hug him and test him !

[Elizabeth G]

Sounds promising Tracii! I wish you the best of luck

[JustJoni]

Very wonderful for you, Tracii!! I hope it continues to go good for you with him

[phili]

Super happy for you!
I've been wondering how much of dressing is at heart our way to attract love, and in this sense you were en femme and it didn't interfere- but wasn't the attraction, so this challenge is for your SO to keep his feelings on track when he sees you femme. But do I detect some feeling that your need to dress en femme fades a bit since you have been accepted and desired even while femme? Maybe dressing for a lover is satisfying as well. And especially a lover who has embraced your gender flexibly.

I might be having a parallel experience in that when I have had a good day out en femme I don't mind dressing masculinely for my wife.

[Jean 103]

Sounds good . Happy you have a friend. It takes time to build a relationship. It's great to have friends, it's not a race, you can take your time. Again I'm happy for you.

[paulaprimo]

he sounds wonderful Tracii and good for you!!
i'd love to double date with you...

[Tracii G]

Well Rogina its still testing the waters for me.
The guy date was the best I will admit.

[Lana Mae]

So happy for you, Tracii! Best wishes going forward! Hugs Lana Mae

[Fiona123]

The important thing is that you and the gentleman are having fun together. Very important in an otherwise stressful world. It makes me happy just reading about your dates.

[Anne K]

So happy for you Tracii! Hope the relationship builds!

[Lydianne]

Tracii, this is awesome!! I'm so happy for you . I hope the relationship develops into everything you are looking for .

- Lydianne.

[Joanne Curl]

Good for you! You deserve some happy!

[Pat]

Cool! Sounds like you're having fun. I'm happy to hear that. Good luck.

[Tracii G]

Nice to date someone who "gets it".
No drama no needy-ness or games.

[Linda P.]

Happy for you Tracii. It's great to read about positive relationship news.

[Tracii G]

Oooo such positive responses and nobody is yelling at me LOLOL.

Its interesting going out as a couple after all this time.
Met him for coffee a couple of hours ago so got to have a little time together today.

[Jodie_Lynn]

Congratulations! And he is a lucky guy! I hope everything works out well.

[Rogina B]

Oooo such positive responses and nobody is yelling at me LOLOL.

I will as you are openly cheating on me... Are you sure he doesn't have a problem with femininity?? Are you really going to be alright with his liking of a more male expression?

[Meghan4now]

Oooo such positive responses and nobody is yelling at me LOLOL.

Its interesting going out as a couple after all this time.
Met him for coffee a couple of hours ago so got to have a little time together today.

Dang, my carhart's are tan.