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    3rd date

    Had my 3rd date with a fellow I met 4 months ago.
    Not sure where or if its going anywhere but thats OK just having the dates is nice.
    1st 2 dates I was in girl mode this one was I was 50/50 mode.
    He asked me to be in 50/50 mode so not a problem.
    Did a few historical sites around town and visited a winery close by.
    Quite a few people on the tour and we all had a fun time.
    He treated me the same as he did when I was in girl mode which is what I was hoping for.
    Super nice guy overall and a fun time yay !!

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    Lovely to hear hun and even if its not going anywhere its lovely to have a friend to share things with that has the same interests ...have fun!! xx
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    Sounds lovelly, good luck with it

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    Sounds nice Tracii. Hope he stays in touch with you.
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    Sounds good . Happy you have a friend. It takes time to build a relationship. It's great to have friends, it's not a race, you can take your time. Again I'm happy for you.

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    That sounds really great. It's good that he is ok with whichever mode you choose.
    Hope it works out well for you!
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    Thanks all.
    He is a really nice guy and we do have lots in common which is always a plus.
    He is down for either mode I'm in but I let him choose. I don't want him to be uncomfortable in any way with my presentation.
    He is 6'2" and I'm 5'4" so in girl mode it looks right anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tracii G;
    I don't want him to be uncomfortable in any way with my presentation.
    He is 6'2" and I'm 5'4" so in girl mode it looks right anyway.
    So,if he isn't comfortable,why cave? Seems that he is more comfortable as "straight gay"...Hold him and hug him and test him !
    Last edited by Pat; 11-12-2017 at 06:08 PM. Reason: fix quote tag

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    he sounds wonderful Tracii and good for you!!
    i'd love to double date with you...
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    Well Rogina its still testing the waters for me.
    The guy date was the best I will admit.

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    So happy for you, Tracii! Best wishes going forward! Hugs Lana Mae
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    The important thing is that you and the gentleman are having fun together. Very important in an otherwise stressful world. It makes me happy just reading about your dates.

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    So happy for you Tracii! Hope the relationship builds!

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    Cool! Sounds like you're having fun. I'm happy to hear that. Good luck.
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    Nice to date someone who "gets it".
    No drama no needy-ness or games.

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    oh!! so he "gets it"... bad girl!!
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    We all deserve happiness and it certainly sounds like you are happy! Enjoy the ride.
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    Glad for you, just wondering if 50/50 mode was a compromise, would he prefer 100% guy?

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    LOL sarah my 50/50 IS my guy mode.
    No compromise on my part thats the way I am everyday he knows that.
    Last edited by Tracii G; 11-12-2017 at 08:06 PM.

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    Good for you Tracii
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    Good for you Tracy! He sounds like a nice guy. Very happy for you!

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    Thanks everyone I appreciate it.
    Paulaprimo he just might get it eventually LOLOL.

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    Very happy for you Tracii.

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    Nice the hear Tracii so happy for you...
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    Happy for you, even if it doesn't go anywhere it's still nice too go out with someone you like and have fun with. Good luck Jaymee
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