Just peeked in here to say thanks so much for the well wishes I do appreciate them all.
Just peeked in here to say thanks so much for the well wishes I do appreciate them all.
Mmm!!!
I'm gone for a while and you find someone new to go out with!
I'll be just fine here by myself! No, don't worry I'm Ok with it!
Stacy!
I meant to say that I'm quite happy to hear about this, the other just slipped out.
I hope that Mr.? turns out to be Mr. "Right for you", I really do. Apparently there are some nice people in this world!
Go with it Girl and best with it!
Stacy!
STOP, Well I just dance the way I feel
Stop breathing imagine none of this is real
Well I just dance the way I feel
Well I just dance the way I feel
Well I just dance the way I feel "Ou Est Le Swimming Pool"
Stacy you and Rogina are so funny.
I never planned this it just happened. How long it will last who knows?
Traci does 50/50 take away from being "a girl with a guy" feeling? Doesn't 50/50 say two guys gay relationship, since he suggested it does he prefer it to you as a female? Since you are 50/50 all the time wouldn't you prefer girl when with him? Wouldn't you two draw more attention when 50/50? Are you looking forward to this going further than just coffee?
Tracii I am so happy for you!!!
So WHEN are we going to meet this young man?? We have a questionnaire for him to fill out. To find out what his true intentions are??
We have questions and he has answers !!
Tracii we are just protecting our little sister is all.
Leann
If you can't laugh and have fun you might as well go home.
Having a date is nice, having a second is always uplifting, and a third! I am happy for you, enjoy life and have fun! Thank you for sharing. There is someone out there for everyone; your job, find them! Take care, Brenda
Super happy for you!
I've been wondering how much of dressing is at heart our way to attract love, and in this sense you were en femme and it didn't interfere- but wasn't the attraction, so this challenge is for your SO to keep his feelings on track when he sees you femme. But do I detect some feeling that your need to dress en femme fades a bit since you have been accepted and desired even while femme? Maybe dressing for a lover is satisfying as well. And especially a lover who has embraced your gender flexibly.
I might be having a parallel experience in that when I have had a good day out en femme I don't mind dressing masculinely for my wife.
We are all beautiful...!
I’m usually the one who chickens out after two dates! Hope it keeps going well, Traci!
Remember always that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one.
Eleanor Roosevelt
Deebra 50/50 does for some reflect a gay relationship and thats fine with me.
To be honest I was worried he wouldn't act the same with me in 50/50 mode in public.
He treated me the same as he did when I was in girl mode.
Me in 100% girl mode does feel different in some ways but personally I feel the same way so the clothes aren't even a factor.
My presentation as a female on a date does not change who either of us are or how we treat each other.
Phili My need to dress enfemme is still there and I am not going to stop doing that any time soon he knows that.
Being free to express myself when I feel like it is paramount to me and I will give that up for no one.
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Wait a sec, I'm confused: why would anyone yell at you?
I'm in a similar situation. My Mr. X and I have had 7 dates so far. I'm always in girl mode, on our dates and he is ok with it. I'd feel odd in boy mode or even 50/50. But I'm happy to hear that you are so comfortable (and him too) in whichever mode you choose.
Not that I'm pushing things, but,
When is the bridal shower???
Before you can love another, you must first like yourself
I Aim To Misbehave
Labels belong on BOXES, not PEOPLE!
Jodie no bridal show that I know of LOLOL.
I feel like a female all the time so modes really aren't all that far apart just the make up and fixing my hair,add a few rings and bracelets and I'm ready.
Well the clothes may be more feminine sure but I am still me either way.
Its been fun so far.
Hope your guy works out for you in the long run.
Congratulations Tracii. I am really happy for you.
Hi Tracii. I was wondering how you two met because you know girls just love how we met stories.
Hi Tracii
I am glad it all seems to be going well so far.
Good Luck for the future
BSB and Celee I met him at a small night spot with a GG friend of mine.
I wrote about it in the GM section of the forum in a thread called "admirers"
Essentially my GG friend Glenda did a set up on me.( I'm pretty sure) LOLOL.
Anyway we met and he is a really nice guy who is an admirer of MtF CDs and transgender women.
Yes I am gay to answer your question and if I were in my 20s again I would transition but at 65 I know its not going to happen.
Thanks Shelly