A few nights ago I sent a few texts to my fiancée with prices for different breast forms ($559.95,$224.95,$179.95) and had been saying I was going to purchase a set since I had recently gotten a pay bump at work. She joked about it and said no until we have a bit more money saved up. It was the answer I was expecting, no way she’d let me spend that out of nowhere. Now last night I had asked her if we could go shopping at the mall and she didn’t mind. We each picked up a shirt and than went out to diner. When we got home we were messing around and she had made the comment on her own bust saying “they were hers.” I responded with “well you won’t let me get my own so they’re mine too.” She wasn’t mad at the comment but seemed irate. I asked her about it and her response was that it seemed like i was trying to be “Too Feminine / realistic.” I didn’t quite get what she meant so I pressed on. It seems like in her mind that is a step too close to becoming a trans. I’ll want breast forms which will lead to wanting plastic surgery which may lead to srs. I could understand how she might think that but I reassured her that I didn’t have the intention of having srs. So for the time being it looks like I’m sticking to stockings full of rice haha! Like I said it’s the first road bump I’ve hit and I’m more than happy to take it slow and steady until she feels comfortable. I just wanted to share.
~Side Note~
For some reason in her mind it’s okay to bring up a makeup artist on YouTube that had SRS and documented her own journey stating “I thought you might have been interested in seeing it” but breast forms are a no-no. That’s proabbaly a story for a different time though haha.