I was reading the thread "How did you feel going out en femme for the first time ? " The first time was in Waikiki with the wife in 2014. Nervous, scared thinking every one is looking at you. i have not gone out dressed since then, not that I am scared to to so, just to much going on to do so.
We are currently in Maui until Friday. Then we have plans to go to Waikiki so I can go out as Stephanie. ( Dawn P is just my log on name female version of my male name.) I been thinking of going home because of lacking confidence of going out for my second time in a major tourist area. Another reason this may sound dumb. I forgot to pack my sandals or a pair of wedges, I packed heels, I never noticed female tourist wearing heels and i have been coming to the islands for years.
My question is should I suck it up and just do it.