I’ve been shaving my arms and legs for several year (off and on). My wife of 21 years actually waxes my chest and stomach. I recently came out to her about my CD’ing, which she has excepted with love. Even before she knew about my little secret, she wasn’t crazy about me being hairless. She would make comments once in awhile about how she didn’t like it, but never really demanded that I let the hair grow back. Now that she knows about my CD’ing, she has become more vocal about me being hairless. She says it’s too girly and has asked me how would I like it if she was hairy. She has a valid question and I wouldn’t like it at all if she was all hairy. For me, being hairless doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with my CD’ing. I’m a naturally hairy person and have hated it since puberty. I totally get that our wives and girlfriends need to know how for us CD’ers want to progress. I have no desire to transition or to live as a female and I told her that. I asked her if she would be more comfortable if I let things grow back out and she said yes. She is new to all this and I want her to be as comfortable as she can be, but MY GOSH do I hate my hairy extremities. Even tho me being hairless has nothing to do with CD’ing, it does have added benefits. It feels so good being smooth underneath whatever I’m wearing. It’s very appealing to my eyes to see a smooth leg peeking out from underneath a skirt. Seeing painted toe nails on smooth toes and feet in heels. During my coming out conversation, I told my wife the attraction of my CD’ing was feeling female on the inside and looking female on the outside. I only feel that way when I dress. When the clothes, makeup and wig come off, I’m a guys guy and the same ole husband with husband duties. I want my wife to be comfortable with what I’m doing, but at the same time, I want to be happy with my own body. I like hairless and she doesn’t.
Anyway, I would love to hear any advise and opinions from the wives on here. I also value and welcome advise from other CD’ers as well.