Well being this was probably my first place I openly talked as Maria, it did take me a while of lurking before I finally trusted this site. When I realized it wasn't a dating or porn site and that I was reading to what people were talking about the same problems I was going through. I knew this was a place for me but it did take awhile to take that first step, but I don't regret it.
Like others I spent a bit of time looking at this forum before joining. I had seen other forums but this one looked the best, I think I made the right decision.
Here today, gone tomorrow....
This forum is set up so non members (or members who do not log in) can see a very limited part of the forum. If you object to that, you should probably delete all your posts and drop out.
What many of us would object to is a member logging in and then letting random people use their computer to view the parts that non-members are not supposed to see. This is, of course, against the rules.
The bottom line is, if you're out to the public, you probably don't care. If you're not out to the public you should be very careful what you post here. Once you put something on the Internet, you've lost control of what happens to it.
Krisi
I'd actually prefer having the general public having access to this part of the forum as compared to the majority of other sites on the web that deal with crossdressing. The focus, respect and moderation all serve to present our stories in a much better and more honest light than you see elsewhere. This isn't to say there aren't other good sites out there, it's just there are a lot where the focus is primarily sexual and ignores the questions and challenges we face.
Sarah
Being transgender isn't a lifestyle choice. How you deal with it is.
I suspect that we where all lurkers here at one time. For me it was very helpful to be able to just check things out before joining. I would hope that others looking for a place for support and understanding would check this wonderful site out before joining.
no objection here. be safe Karrin
The only way to decide whether to join or not is to read what is in the forum. Prior to joining I read many Treads and liked what I read. I found people similar to me.
I would encourage folks to look before joining. I lurked for a year or add o
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