After leaving the forum yesterday I tried a web search with the intention of finding CDers being natural while appearing in public ,hoping to see them going about their everyday activities. All I found was some very good looking ones totally overdressed and behaving in provocative ways . OK so tried including mature in the search ,more of the same sort of images plus an increasing number of explicit sexual activities. So for my final search I tried transsexuals out in public , the images were more or less as before .
Before anyone starts replying with suitable sites I could search , that would be missing the point . When our wives/partners, family and friends want to check us out this is the first thing that will be force fed to them . OK maybe it's a supply and demand situation , that is either what the public wants or mostly all that is on offer from the vast majority of the sites . The problem is how many of us have pleaded with our wives that we aren't like that .
I then checked out India Willourby ( hopefully spelt right ) , she is a TS in the UK who now appears on Channel 4 news.
I found an interview on Pink Pages where she very outspoken on mere CDers, the ones who can flit back and forth from business suit to floral dresses and still find they have the right to use female washrooms because they are " Trans !", She went on to say they have no right at all because of the pretence they are living . I was thinking how I could make some reply to that so went onto the reply page , "OH Boy " it appeared to full of people who had just digested the entire Oxford dictionary and were throwing heated barbs at each other without considering the full meaning . Freedom of speech is a wonderful thing as long as you know what you are talking about ! I don't claim to be the brightest bulb in the lighting factory but that was one area I wouldn't even attempt to enter.
I'm afraid the media has a great deal to answer for they have taken " TRANS!" and used it from every angle without considering what it means and what term should be correctly used with it .
The activist are doing none of us any favours , they are standing on their soap boxes throwing barbs in every direction without any specific target , the problem is the general public is in the firing line and they are getting truly pissed off with the whole movement .
I was hoping to come out fully in the next few week , I realise now if I do receive a bad response it maybe not be of my doing but the so called trans activist movement who claim they are fighting for our rights but in reality doing more damage .
I'm sure some of you are saying I'm much better staying in the closet , I know I couldn't exist there , if you feel the need is strong enough, take the chance by coming out to show truly what sort of people we are .