Been awhile since I posted here so I thought it was time I posted an update. I am neck deep in transition. After jumping through the hoops at a VA hospital that had no idea how to deal with me (not in a bad way, simple lack of experience-they have been very supportive), I started hormones mid-November. I lost 60 pounds this year. My hair is well below my shoulders and I am more comfortable with myself. Though I am not completely "out" to everyone, I am not hiding either. Nobody asks and I don't tell.
Still fighting through personal issues: finalize divorce, end of anoher long relationship because of transitioning, mother flip-flopping in her support but I am happier every day which is what I needed.
Next year will be a big year but I am looking forward to it, the true me finally emerges!