Are we Helping to get Women back into Frilly Lingerie By wearing it Ourselves

[Robbiegirl]

I love wearing frilly womens things Like Babydoll nighties, Peignoir sets, full slips and even petticoats but also love it when women wear these things !

For those of you who are out to your wives does your dressing make them jealous and inspire them to put on pretty lingerie and dresses like you do.

Its hard for me to believe that when you first started wearing frilly nighties to bed that your wife didn't either say wow that looks cute and comfy or teased you by saying something like - Are you serious ?

Women are so clothes conscience and love to give compliments that I have to believe you have heard comments about your dressing and its had some effect on them !

We really need to get women back into Frilly things !

[Steph_CD_62]

My wife is more of a tomboy and has been most of her life. She never wears any frilly lingerie. All of her bra and panties are made of cotton. The couple nighties I have bought her she wore them once and then put them away and I haven't even bought her any lingerie for over 10 years probably closer to 15 years.

[Isabella Ross]

I'm married to a girly girl. And even she laughs at some of the stuff I wear to bed...

[Robbiegirl]

I'm married to a girly girl. And even she laughs at some of the stuff I wear to bed...

Probably a Babydoll ! LOL its hard to get them into one espcially ones with rhumba panties !

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Really how about you wear what you want to and let us GGs decide for ourselves whether we want to wear frilly or not!

LOL ! Sorry ! I just believe if you ladies would wear these silly items that make you look even more feminine we guys wouldn't have to wear them so much ! They are fun for you but embarrassing for us

[Nigella]

99% of the stuff you are talking about is not practical, women wear clothing that will be suitable for their needs, not to titillate themselves, like some.

Take a look around the real world, next you will be wanting them to wear a French maids dress and 6" heels to clean out the bathroom.

LOL ! Sorry ! I just believe if you ladies would wear these silly items that make you look even more feminine we guys wouldn't have to wear them so much ! They are fun for you but embarrassing for us

Wow, you really know how to dig yourself into a hole, how deep do you think you can get?

[Sallee]

that's a great idea But I don't think it will happen. but I want to be there when if it does.

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that's a great idea But I don't think it will happen. but I want to be there when if it does.

[Sandra]

LOL ! Sorry ! I just believe if you ladies would wear these silly items that make you look even more feminine we guys wouldn't have to wear them so much ! They are fun for you but embarrassing for us

Oh so it's my fault that you have to wear them so much, don't make me laugh, don't make what I wear or don't your excuse for your dressing!!


Who's says it makes us look more feminine? you don't know me and know nothing about me and you certainly don't know how feminine I lam so don't tell me that I should be wearing these frilly things.

[Kelly DeWinter]

What do you mean "We" ?

This is the type of topic that feeds into stereotypes and as you can tell by the responses is not going to win any converts.

"Originally Posted by Robbiegirl

LOL ! Sorry ! I just believe if you ladies would wear these silly items that make you look even more feminine we guys wouldn't have to wear them so much ! They are fun for you but embarrassing for us"

If you are running for spokeman for guys, this is not the way to do it.

[char GG]

Earth to Robbiegirl! Give it up!

[rachael.davis]

LOL ! Sorry ! I just believe if you ladies would wear these silly items that make you look even more feminine we guys wouldn't have to wear them so much ! They are fun for you but embarrassing for us

Then don't wear them yourself - I'm moving towards full time, but I dress LL Bean (skirts / slacks / sweaters) for therapy and general wear, I dress in jeans, tanks, and flannels (womens cut) when I'm working my shop. What I wear under them, or in my bed is nobodies business but my own. Dress any way you want, and please stop dictating how the rest of the world presents - no one else is on this planet to give you your morning dose of jollies.

[Nikkilovesdresses]

We really need to get women back into Frilly things !

Good luck with that Robbiegirl. They either like them or they don't, and in my experience very few of them do.

I only ever had 1 girlfriend who was really into them. I had a few who would wear stockings now and then, but I got the impression it was more about hooking a guy than because they liked wearing them. Part of what drives me to wear frillies is that I just want them in my life, and if she won't wear them, that only leaves me. It really is one huge disappointment.

[Cheryl T]

Although I do love my feminine finery and wear it all the time and have a very wonderful and accepting wife I don't believe that because we wear these things that it will influence women in any way to do the same.

Women have become empowered in the last few decades for sure and most have become comfortable in things like jeans and leggings and except for the occasional bedroom adventure I'm sure they are not enamored by the frills and lace that most of us find so attractive. Certainly they do love to show off now and then but I feel that the attraction for us in many cases is that we don't have the flexibility and option to wear these things when we like and that pushes many to do so more than the average woman would.

[Judy-Somthing]

I wish!
My wife stopped wearing dresses years ago and two years ago when she found out I like wearing women's clothes she cut up and threw out all her lingerie!
It's a catch 22, the more I want her to dress sexy the less she wants to.
The only way I'm going to get someone in a nice dress is to wear it myself.

[DIANEF]

The only way I'm going to get someone in a nice dress is to wear it myself.

How true. My wife never wears dresses, and as for lingerie, only in our very early days of being together did she have any, and she admitted it was only to please me she even considered wearing any. Actually the days of me even wanting her to wear lingerie are long gone.

[char GG]

By Robbiegirl:
"just jealous that they feel they can wear whatever they want and have fun"

What in the world is that suppose to mean? If you are jealous, that is your problem. I would love to wear a sequin ball gown all the time and "have fun" but I would look "out of place and silly". Maybe that is how you look when you "wear whatever you want and have fun". Sounds like you have a fetish and think everyone should be on board with you.

It's cute when a 4 year old wears a superman/or fairy costume every day and everyone sweetly calls them "superman or fairy" but a grown man wearing women's lingerie and expecting some kind of applause doesn't really work the same way. You may just look "out of place and silly". Obviously you can wear whatever you would like in your own home, just don't expect the world to change for you because you are jealous.

Thanks Megan G for a voice of reason.

And to answer your OP:
No, you are not helping women back into frilly lingerie by wearing it yourselves. Are women helping getting you back into pants by wearing them ourselves?

[Pat]

We really need to get women back into Frilly things !

No, we don't. What "we" need to do is check our male privilege at the door. Women can choose their own clothing, just as you wish to choose yours. They don't need lingerie mansplained to them. They don't need to be guided or fixed. The only thing out of whack here is the sense that "we" need to control them. Jeeze!

[Sandra]

Really how about you wear what you want to and let us GGs decide for ourselves whether we want to wear frilly or not!

[~Joanne~]

Really how about you wear what you want to and let us GGs decide for ourselves whether we want to wear frilly or not!

I agree with Sandra, maybe not the way she phrased it but the point of what she did say. We talk about how we have the right to wear what we want and our SO's should have that same right too. I wear what I want, she wears what she wants and we have no problems.

To be completely honest, if I went to my SO and said "ok, today your going to wear some pantyhose" and she went and put some on, I probably would be pissed at the fact that she did. That means she is letting me dictate things and we have never had that a day in our relationship. Now I wouldn't complain if she just did it on her own accord one day

[LilSissyStevie]

I've read the OP several times and I'm still trying to find the part where it advocates the repeal of women's right to vote, to own property, to work outside the home, or to wear anything they damn well please. Our PC dystopia becomes ever more ridiculous. One has to work hard these days to find offense. The OP expressed a preference and somehow that oppresses women. LOL! Yes, people have a right to wear what they want, and others have the right to prefer they wear something else. As for myself, cruel oppressor that I am, I hate tattoos and piercings and would prefer others didn't have them so I wouldn't have to see them.

[LilSissyStevie]

If you want to see women prance about wearing scanty, frilly things, you should buy a ticket to the ballet. I went to the Nutcracker the other day. It was marvelous.

No, we don't. What "we" need to do is check our male privilege at the door. Women can choose their own clothing, just as you wish to choose yours. They don't need lingerie mansplained to them. They don't need to be guided or fixed. The only thing out of whack here is the sense that "we" need to control them. Jeeze!

By the same token we don't need any self-righteous virtue signaling transsplaing to put the brutes back in their place. The GGs seem to have been able to defend themselves. But your chivalry is a credit to the patriarchy nevertheless.

[Robbiegirl]

Thanks Stevie ! Never meant to offend women just jealous that they feel they can wear whatever they want and have fun but most have a problem when we want to wear silly things also and have fun !

[Fiona123]

I love the feel of frilly clothes. Sadly my wife will have none of it.

[docrobbysherry]

Using that same argument:

Let's get women back in the kitchen by doing all the cooking and cleaning ourselves!

[NancySue]

Not under this roof. She’s, more and more, dressing for comfort and practically. Heels, hose, skirts and underwires are rarely seen around here. Having said that, I’m so thankful for her support and help, I wouldn’t think of saying anything that might make her think I’m being critical of what she wears. She’s fine with me wearing hose, heels, nighties, slips, etc. my observations locally seem to indicate others are going for comfort and practically too. I’m letting a sleeping kitten alone.

[GracieRose]

i believe that most mature women outgrew that stuff long ago. I agree that they are cute and fun to wear, but I have to agree with the GGs that feel that it is not practical and there are more comfortable choices available.