As Ive gotten older. I have not been so worried about what others think.
I have two circles of friends...some know about me...some don't and some are part of that " in between"
I have been "found out" either by mistake or coming out to others , but as time goes on, I seem to care less and
am friends with many women, couples as well as men.
It hasn't always gone well, but seem to comfortable with that..
I am not sure if this has been brought up before..
For us girls over 40...do you feel the same? ( younger girls can comment too!)