Prowling on Yahoo and looking at CD pictures saw this site and just observed a month or two then joined. At first I had my face and body in my avatar and profile, it stayed that way for several months then some posted that people can come on and lurk so I quickly started making pictures that would be hard to recognize me and be positive. I'd show my face if it was only members that's been here for years on. I'm still a chicken about that.
Summer of 2016.
Got "caught". Came out to my wife of 40 yrs. Total shock. I was in a panic.
I didn't have answers to some of my own questions about myself and my motivations. I put aside the denial and started to investigate my condition.
There was a Reddit site i found first but it was difficult and annoying to monitor and read.
This forum was one of the top Google selections when I Googled "crossdressing".
Thank God I found this place. I have learned from a family of experienced, intelligent and wise sisters here. You understand. We're not all alike but you understand why it is important to recognize, love and cultivate my feminine side. This forum has provided advice that literally saved my marriage and my sanity. I've also grown and evolved as a transgender person in my short journey. I love this so; this being a woman. Thank you, forum sisters.
There resides within me a Woman, and she is powerful.
She has been my Grace and Bearing on the stormiest seas.
I could no more deny Her than I would my own soul.
I did a search looking for answers. I lurked for a while after finding this place and even lurked after I joined. Now it is a weekly or more stop when I am not bouncing around the Pacific Northwest in a semi. I am still searching for answers and have had many questions answered.
I've been dressing for many years but came upon this site two years ago in a search. I had not been much of a joiner even though I had been out to the Tiffany Club twice. But there was an immediate attraction to the people here and the breadth of knowledge about our mutual hobby/journey/life. So I joined right away!
I found this place about 10 years ago. Nothing but good to say about it.
I googled cross dressing and this site came up. That was January 2010.
Remember always that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one.
Eleanor Roosevelt
I use to inhabit hewearspanties dot com and someone mentioned this site and I have been here since.
Last edited by alwayshave; 12-17-2017 at 06:09 AM.
Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".
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