And, I'm normally so very careful with my online life, and I can't think how I managed to do it, but I just checked my list of favourites and what did I find? Only a link to a thread on this site!! Oops! Well it's gone now. Safely deleted. It just goes to show how careful we have to be. Yes, I am lucky that my SO is accepting, yes she does know I post on a forum, but she doesn't know which forum. And it's probably best kept that way. After all, a girl does need her secrets. Maybe checking your favourites every now and then might be a good thing to add to your safety routines.