I am life long crossdresser who thought getting married and purging would make me a "true male" however after 30 years married, crossdressing sparingly, but enough to satisfy. I have always worn short shorts and now shave legs, chest and underarms, have tan lines from thong from sunbathing. I have been a "couldn't care less what people think" most of my life and would love to tell her all, but she wants a "real man" which I am but I love to dress like a hot woman. I will most likely carry this to my grave unless my memory gets erased and everyone finds all my stash... at least I wont care by then. I love her but don't trust her with the weight of all this. All advise requested.