Ok, so my wife knows I wear lingerie and we are in a basically dadt situation. Twice in the past 10 years she has found items of women's underwear, first a bodysuit then about 7 months ago a shapwear cami with padded breasts. To say she was not pleased on both occasions is an understatement. Although she has known for the past forty years that I wear panties 24/7, in bed and during sex, she upset that I was wearing other items of lingerie. She would only have to look in my drawers of my bedroom to find cami, bras, hosiery, shapewear, nighties etc to discover my stash of lingerie. After the last find we had the talk after about three days of no talking. The usual questions and I assured her I loved her, she asked did I want a divorce and she would not use my cding against me. Said no I didn't want a divorce. Aked did I want to see a "counsellor" to which I replied no, I have accepted who I am but did she. I also told her I have no intention of stopping my cding, that I only ever underdressed and no intention of transitioning. I'm pretty sure she was more upset that I had effectively been lying to her all these years.
Now to the crux of my thread. My wife has now retired and this is really having an impact on my dressing time. I work shift work so was home alone a lot which enabled me plenty of time to indulge in my most favorite past time. Even in the cooler weather I could get away with forms,bras, hosery etc when she was home with me. Well its summer here at this time and about the only item of linger I have been able to wear are panties and I am so missing my forms, bras, camis etc that I am sure you can appreciate. Well today my wife went camping, I will be joing her tomorrow but have to work tonight. It was sooo great to be able to wear forms and a leotard and pantyhose again that I am wearing them at work right now. Dreading the thought of having to take them of to meet up with my wife. So that's my little rant/delima. Guess I'll will have gurl up, have another talk and explain to her just how important to my mental well being being able to wear my lingerie is to me. Sorry for the long story but it does help getting it out there.