I know some members have nave been caught out like a rabbit in the headlights not knowing whether to stay frozen or make a dash for the nearest rabbit hole .
I've not been in that situation when dressed and my experiences of meeting the public is women very often give you a knowing smile as if you've discovered one of their female secrets , the men on the whole don't make eye contact .
I'm smiling while I type this to recall this recent event .
I was dressed and just entering the hotel main entrance while a large guy was heading out from the reception , he didn't know what to do , which way to step and where to look , he really was the rabbit in the headlights on this occasion ! I just looked him in the eye and smiled and thanked him for holding the door but did he really think someone half his size could eat him for breakfast ?
I now realise there could be a footnote to this, I am making the assumption that he read me straight away !
According to replies I received in another thread I'm kidding myself anyway certainly not wearing any lower padding and resembling the Michelin Man I couldn't even resemble looking like a woman !
On the point of guys making eye contact , Carole and I stayed over after the Xmas party and dressed for breakfast . A lovely young couple stopped to talk to us , they had been attending another party but gatecrashed ours because no one was dancing at theirs so joined us because we were all bopping away . I made a remark about men and eye contact because this guy was looking straight in the eye when he spoke , she let slip that he was an officer in the army and so that explained it . It was refreshing to have this contact with a couple and talk about being TG in this way .