I am naturally beardy, and all the males in the family have a beard. I grew a beard as soon as I was able and kept it for ages.
However, once I was dressing more I began to fluctuate how much facial hair I have at any time.
Sometimes I'm fully shaven and look fabulous dressed. Other times when I'm not dressing so much I'll let it grow out.
I'd suggest if you've had full facial hair for ages is to trim it and gradually shorten it with time and see how you feel as it reduces. Also gives family and friends less of a shock.
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