Hi ladies I'm not sure where to post this so here goes My wife and I have been just discussing what makes me tik little history I'm 45 we have been together for about 6yrs now at the time we started dating I was a practicing alcoholic I now have been sober for about 2yrs We started playing dress up even before we got married she was very involved in it and participated with all of this we even went on outings to the twin cities and actually joined triess there.Then about 3 months after I sobered up I went through the I think I'm a woman phase needless to say this pretty much destroyed her.I decided after lots of soul searching that thats not something I could do I am ok being me.But the damage of that statement I think is something that she will never forgive.Since that time the crossdressing became an immediate problem for us we have tried a couple of times to go back that way but there is always that lingering in her thoughts and mine she and I have alot of anger built up she says my anger comes from something in my past I keep trying to tell her It is because she stopped the crossdressing.She just can't believe that it's about the crossdressing I tried to tell her this evening that her stopping me from crossdressing is the reason I get angry I believe I have built up resentments about her stopping it and the reason I am so depressed and angry is because the crossdressing is a part of who i am not just a thing I do to upset her.I wish I could get across to her why it is such a integral part of who I am.She keeps saying it's not the crossdressing it's something else.I do love my wife but this issue is ripping us apart.Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.Thanks Dannielle