Hi, I am CD, married to a GG, who is super supportive of my CD'g, for which I am super happy and lucky! We are in our late 30's with two young kids, living in Westchester County, just north of NYC. I haven't been very open about my CD'g, and have to keep it a secret from my work in particular, and so only a few people know. This of course means it is very frustrating for me to have to keep suppressing this side of myself!
Lately my wife and I have been discussing how I can express this side of myself more comfortably, and possibly get out and meet members of the CD community, including those who have kids, to share thoughts and experiences, and also help us figure out how we deal with in-laws and kids potentially learning about my CD'g. We would for example be interested to host a CD event at our house, but are nervous about how to do so in a discreet and safe manner.
Does anyone have any advice? Or past experiences? Thanks!