CD's do u dress sexy? If not, why not?

[docrobbysherry]

I dress in what I consider sexy outfits most of the time. Why? because I CAN!

They excite me and it often turns me on to see a pretty woman in my mirror.

I understand why TS's don't often dress that way. They dress every day and wish to present as the average woman does. Women rarely present themselves in sexy outfits at day time vanilla venues.

But, we CD's don't dress every day and dress in private or go out nites to T friendly clubs and bars where sexy attire is normal!

I'M ADDING A PHOTO, (1/14/18), SO FOLKS WILL UNDERSTAND WHAT I MEAN BY "SEXY"!
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If you're a CD do u dress sexy very often?

[Karmen]

Yes, I think we do dress sexy more, at least those who are still living in the closet, because we mostly dress for us at home and don't have to dress appropriately for the occasion. I know I dress more sexy at home than when going out, because I want to blend in as much as possible with the rest of the women when in public. As I go out mostly at night, I usually dress as more moderate women when going out partying. If I dress when going out during the day, I dress down considerably to hide in the masses. Usually pants, not skirt and shoes with lower heels or even flats and so on.
When at home, I dress without restraint what means quite sexy (mini skirts, short dresses with open back and shoulders, etc) and would definitely stand out dressed like that on the street, no matter if it's day or night.

[Abbey11]

I try to but I'll let others, you, decide from my pics

[Sarah Doepner]

Sherry, you've seen me. Getting cleaned up and hoping for the best is about as sexy as I get. Like most other things in this world, it comes down to what's between your ears on this one.

[Nancie64]

The few times I go out, I try to blend but I love dresses and skirts. These leggings that woman wear now sometimes look like 10 lbs in a 5 lb bag. Like stockings and feeling sexy. Sometimes just to take a ride and maybe stop at a wayside for a little strol, than the skirt might be a bit above the knees, SO says I have nice legs so she likes when I show them a little.

[Lucy Lou]

I always try to dress sexy. As a man trying to look fem I find that I have to try and dress to look good. It also makes me feel wonderful too.

[CONSUELO]

Doc,

Not sure what exactly you mean by "dressing sexy", but yes I like to choose outfits that are very feminine and therefore very sexy. I too like to see a pretty woman looking back at me from the mirror and I also find it to be a "turn on". I wear feminine underwear all the time as well as sleep in nightdresses and I always buy the sexiest looking and most elegant of clothing; pencil skirts, pretty blouses and dresses and good looking heels as well as elegant and sexy slips etc. I don't feel I want to just dress in jeans and a sweatshirt.

[Scarlett398]

Yes, I dress sexy, but as mentioned in many of my previous posts, I add cute and classy to the sexy look or visa versa. I would not be ashamed to wear any of my outfits, which are mostly tops and skirts with tights, booties, boots, very sexy panties, etc.

When I do a photo shoot of myself while putting my Nikon D3100 on a self timer, about as sexy as I possibly get is when I wear one of my wife's stretch lace or stretch shear tops she may wear to bed on date nights. You've seen them on me before in purple, gray, and ivory in color. There are a few of those tops of hers in different colors I'll be incorporating into my next photo shoot which will be my very first from our new home. That photo shoot will happen around the last few days of March when she's out of town on a two day training mission for her job.

I do like dressing sexy and feeling sexy but based on the biological clock ticking, I'm not sure how long I can keep "sexy" up. I hope I have about 3 or 4 sexy more years in me.

That's it for now and that was a really great question and the answers from the girls were very interesting to read!

Sincerely, Scarlett

[DIANEF]

I don't really do 'sexy' when out as most GGs don't, not that I have anything against it. I do try and look smart and feminine and so far my 'blending ' seems to be working. On the other hand I'm always in a dress or skirt and tights, I don't want to go out in some identikit 'Walmart shopper' outfit either. Behind closed doors I have worn stuff I never would outside.

[Mickitv]

When I dress I love to dress professionally, like a secretary but always wear sexy lingerie underneath. Professional on the outside and ****ty on the inside

[Lucy23]

Depends on what you mean by "sexy". If it means a miniskirt or a LBD with high heels and tights that look like stockings, well, I can do that, but... I wouldn't really feel sexy in that, and that wouldn't be because I'm a man. For me, dressing sexy means the clothes you have reveal something about you, something within you. I have a female friend who, well, you wouldn't call her style feminine at all. Yet, she knows what she likes, and she owns it to the point I would have no hesitation calling it sexy as hell.

With that said, I can wear a simple fitted ribbed dress with ballet flats and then feel sexy.

[Rayleen]

Well call it sexy or not, I dress mostly for in house and every time I try something different and the mirror tells me If its cute, sexy is hard at a certain age...you not as slim as younger gg's. Now I can see why so's take time to go out, they need to have every details to match which is a lot of work, and admire them when they come out very pretty and cute.

I try do dress most every day.

[Majella St Gerard]

Sexy is a state of mind

[Robertacd]

I used to gravitate towards the "sexy stuff" when I was young, but my definition of sexy has changed as I matured.

When I am dressed in a sharp skirt suit, fitted blouse, and pantyhose, I feel sexy. Probably more sexy than when I am wearing a "sexy dress" that some 20 something GG would look hot in.

[Stephanie47]

Sexy is a state of mind

Exactly, I've encountered many women over my seven decades on this planet who probably exemplifies societal norms when it comes to sexy....until they open their mouths and speak. Then sexy totally disappears. Yes, there may be a visual stimuli for the male, but, that's it. Nothing behind the facade. And, it goes for the same with the male of the species.

Perhaps my idea of sexy is really alluring. A little mystery behind the visual. I've encounter a sale associate at Target who had her breasts almost falling out of her top. There was not a ounce of sexy about her. On the other hand there were plenty of women in the aisles buying things on the way to work. They had their hair done. Their makeup highlighted their face. Their clothes were attractive. They walked and presented themselves with confidence. They projected a little bit of mystery.

Anyway, I see tons of young women at the malls who basically throw it all out there like meat in a showcase. Not a hint of mystery. I don't know what it feel to be a woman because I am not a woman. I prefer to wear a pretty dress and heels with lacy undergarments.

I have told of a visual encounter with a young female cement truck driver; petite, blond, attired in steel toed work boots, jeans, flannel shirt, safety vest and hard hat. Her smile and the manner in which she carried herself left me wondering "Who is that young woman?" She was alluring. She was down right sexy. Maybe I am stuck on the visual of my wife when first encountering her at the pool; wind swept hair, cut off jean shorts and brown tee shirt. A beautiful smile. That was sexy.

[Jackie7]

I would dress sexy if we were going to a hot party, but for every day going out and about here in Manhattan, where we live about half the time, and where I dress pretty most of the time when we are here, I aim to be elegantly age appropriate, and to blend.

Doc, I would love to be able to pull off an act like you do as Sherry, but I'm afraid I have too much belly and I think I would die inside a full-face mask. On the other hand, next time I have a few hundred extra $$, I'll be very tempted by a breast plate like yours, and maybe some silicone hips, though when I feel I need more hip and butt I wear home-made foam following Doc's instrux from this site. Doc and Sherry, you are a treasure indeed!

[RainbowDash]

I get that women don't always dress sexy, either because they just don't want to go through the hassle of beautifying themselves up, or maybe cuz they want to be seen as equals to men, and so opt not to go around most of the time wearing skirts, heels, etc. If I had been born a girl, I probably would have grown tired of it after some time.
But these women have been doing it most of their lives, and I got a late start in life, beginning the journey a little over a year ago. I dress up sexy most of the time because of me getting such a late start, and I almost always have the urge to dress sexy. I love looking in the mirror and seeing a sexy young lady staring back at me, and it makes me feel good all over, even more feminine.

[Sabrina.K]

Only in private :P

[Stephanie Voorhees]

Personally, I dress to suit my age and body type. Simply put, the sexy clothes don't look right on my body, so I avoid them. If I had a body built for it, I would probably dress more sexy, but not all the time.

[rockerreds]

Yes, I do when I can.

[Alenko]

I want to try it, but I want to look good! But friend is encouraging me to try it, so maybe I'll take up his suggestion.

[MindiB]

I dress very nice and to the latest fashion there for I fell like I am dressing sexy in away.

[jacques]

hi,
I don't really want to crossdress to look like a woman wearing "men's" clothes (trousers etc.); for me that is underdressing.
luv J

[Tracii G]

No I have no desire to dress sexy.

[Helen_Highwater]

Not wanting to get too deep but for me sexy is in the eye of the beholder. What one sees as sexy someone else sees as trashy or tarty. Hidden in that are things such as just how something is worn, how the wearer carries themselves, what's age appropriate and what's not. Sexy has as much to do with attitude as anything. A great body in a revealing dress and killer heels can leave a viewer cold if the wearer has a mouth like a sewer or has makeup applied with a trowel. Sexy is a package.

I've worn what I'd call mini dresses around the house and looking in the mirror I feel I have decent enough legs to carry it off. However once above the waist things start to go progressively down hill. I will go out wearing a top or dress with a Vee neckline as I can create a decent cleavage (I've even been called hot, must have left their contacts out!) but even then it's tasteful, not something that ends somewhere near the navel.

So for me sexy is someone who dresses with class, wears makeup that's sufficient, almost discernible, has a good figure and carries themselves with style, poise and grace.