I have been going to a therapist the last month and a bit.

Would really like to go somewhere other than her office, there is a coffee shop around the corner from her in a liberal area as I have been told.

I was thinking maybe I would show up a little early and go for a coffee and have my therapist show up and we could just sit and chat, more girl to girl than Therapist to client..

But is this something that is done, would it be in poor judgement to ask her and put her in a spot where She didnt feel comfortable with it and declines.

I really need to take the next step, still have so much fear.

Over came the first trip and taxi ride and walking into her office, I think it worked because I had a reason and goal.

I then drove in from the valley for the last one and walked from parking lot into her office.

But a coffee shop is to much idle time to be alone..