I'm trying to become more communicative with my SO. She feels that I've been secretive about when I dress and what I buy, but I just felt it to be a very strange conversation to have, telling her that I feel like I need to dress up soon or that I need new clothes (especially undergarments!).
I guess some of the issues I have is, that while my crossdressing has never been a secret from her, it is something we very rarley talk about (hard enough time communicating on anything other than work, the kids, and things that need to be done around the house) and I feel really awkward and unsure about having this kind of conversation.
How do you go about these kinds of conversations? Any tips would be appreciated! As would any books on communication in general that you think should be check out.
Thanks,
Casey