Telling a wife or SO that you crossdress is never going to be an easy decision to make.
It should be treated with the utmost caution as there are so many possible outcomes.
I did my thinking, worked out what I was ready to lose and asked myself a thousand times how important crossdressing was to me.
This could cost my marriage.
The dust is still settling. There is communication on the subject and I have been given space since to 'do my thing'.
I know this is only the beginning for our relationship and which way it will go may always be a question waiting to be answered.
All I can say is that I now enjoy my 'Tammy Time' to levels I previously thought never existed.
No longer am I hiding in bags.
I'm perfecting make-up, putting outfits together and believing that someday soon I will be out in the world as Tamsin. Those experiences will be enough for me to put it all back in its closet until the next time.
It's no longer a risky game. It's become a fulfilling and enjoyable experience.
I'm a better person for it. I know I am.
There maybe hidden and unrepairable damage to my relationship with my wife but so far she has remained strong and outwardly it hasn't seemed to have changed anything much. I know she's hurting, she's told me so, I will do my best to help her through it.
Each day as it comes,
Tammy