This conversation took place many years ago when I was single. This was on about the 6th date. I'm shortening it to the relevant sentences.
Me: What quality do you value most highly in a person?
Her: Honesty.
Me: Me too. I like to wear women's dresses.
Her: Seriously?
Me: Yup.
Her: I don't believe you.
Me: It's true.
Her: I can't tell if you're joking.
Me: I'm not joking.
Her: You disgust me.
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I wasn't that upset - she thought Sting was really cool.
I used to have a short attention spa
Where is that woman now?
Evidently she practiced honesty as well, so that's a good thing, I guess.
Sarah
Being transgender isn't a lifestyle choice. How you deal with it is.
I see apples and oranges. I value compassion, but I’m still not going to date the world’s most compassionate drug addict. I understand that prejudice isn’t cool, but I don’t think this is exactly the irony you seem to be implying that it is.
"The truth? U can't handle the truth!"
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
Bummer. I can often tell within minutes whether a GG is pro-, neutral or aaaarrrrrrrggggghhhh!!! Not sure I could be intimate with a woman who didn't at least tolerate some undies.
Last edited by Pat; 02-17-2018 at 02:23 PM. Reason: No need for a full quote of the OP.
And the point is... ?
You were honest, and so was she.
Before you can love another, you must first like yourself
I Aim To Misbehave
Labels belong on BOXES, not PEOPLE!
I think I'm with Jodie_Lynn on this one. Two honest people saving themselves a lot of angst in the future. You both won.
I am not a woman; I don't want to be a woman; I don't want to be mistaken for a woman.
I am not a man; I don't want to be a man; I don't want to be mistaken for a man.
I am a transgender person. And I'm still figuring out what that means.
I told my wife early on about my dressing. She read up on it and decided that we could work things out. We had our ups and downs but stayed together until she passed away.
I later, met one woman that I did like and early on (2nd date) I told her about my dressing. Killed that relationship, not her cup of tea and she was worried that I might dress better than her. Oh well, her loss. And besides she did live a bit far away.
I like the honesty. This would work for me, here I am take all or depart as friendly acquaintances.
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]Fran
It's worth something just being around to Fuss!
Not sure if there is a point? I guess you asked a question, made a statement, and she answered/reacted.
Why does there always need to be a point? I'll tell you what I see here. I see Nikki making a funny post. It's entertaining. Why do some always want to see more than there is and take everything so seriously? Than you Nikki, that was funny.
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You're welcome Daisy. It also happens to be true.Originally Posted by DaisyLawrence
Last edited by Nikkilovesdresses; 02-18-2018 at 03:58 AM.
I used to have a short attention spa
When a woman asks you a question, or tells you that she always wants the truth, what she is really telling you is that she wants you to tell her what she wants to hear. They want the truth because they don't want to fall in love (or stay in love) with a person who is something they don't like. They can be perfectly happy for decades or even a lifetime as long as they remain ignorant of whatever it is that they find unacceptable.
We have seen that in the occasional instance where a couple in their later years (60's, 70's) get into conversation, and the man finally admits having had an affair some 50 years ago. The wife is outraged; she feels that she has been cheated on throughout her entire marriage, that perhaps everyone knew except her, and that she has been made a fool of her entire life. She files for divorce. Even though she was happy for half a century.
Same as when a woman asks you what your sexual fantasies are. She doesn't want to hear about you and that goat, your dream threesome with her younger twin sisters, or your hot secretary. What she WANTS to hear, are that your fantasies are the same as hers. THAT'S what she wants to hear, and what she expects to hear. Basically, some romantic fantasy from a Harlequin romance novel.
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
I used to have similar conversations with girls I knew, also ine guy was curious.
The answer I got four times out of about ten was "Well let's see it."
Was good fun usually. :-)
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
Lexi, you are spot on.
Nikki, the response to telling the truth is you disgust me, I'm sorry, but she disgusts me.
Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".
Wonderful quote !
Phew! Forewarned is forearmed. Thank you sweet lady))
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