I started dressing at around 11 years old and have been for the last 39 years. I have a wonderful wife who knows all about Vicky and accepts her as part of me. The problem I have is that I know that I am not transsexual and do not want to transition but although I can dress when ever I want at home (except when family/friends are in) I have this overwhelming desire to dress more or less full time now. What's a gurl to do?