So my story has now reached it's conclusion, my move happened last Monday and after a short break of no way of contacting the outside World I'm back with you all again .
Have I been out dressed yet ? You bet I have ! Once I finally unpacked all my boxes and disposed of them at the recycle centre, I could hang MY clothes in MY large wardrobe ! It did feel good not having to think who could possibly see them anymore .
Carole called and persuaded me to join another social group so in broad daylight she rang my door bell and we both set off dressed in full view of any passing neighbours .
It's hard to accept the brakes are really off and I can dress as much or as little as I choose without a DADT backlash , opportunity is now the problem with every job down to me but being free to check out any shop and chat with SAs has just got better . Two SAs thought what I was doing was great and gave me a huge hug each in the middle of their shop , I didn't buy anything but it made no difference to their genuine feelings .
To add the story in Loved ones about telling my mother she has been fine about our separation but I still haven't revealed the full story , I will do it when I feel the time is right but first let the dust settle .