Every few months I go to a very nice and professional lady to have my body waxed . I use a depilator in between but still need the professional attention.
Over the years she and I have shared a lot of intimacies. Secret fears, issues in our personal lives with partners etc. She is my informal therapist and we chat continuously when I am there. She tells me of the challenges she faces in her family as well as the successes and she has also been a major source of encouragement for me. She finds my being a transvestite to be completely unremarkable.
Whatever she tells me stays in my head and is not shared with anyone. Likewise for her.
I know that some women's beauty salons serve a similar purpose with chat about family issues and personal hopes and fears.
Doc is right about most men being "locked up" but we are not all like that.